Namibia Missions Trip

Coming Down the Mountain

2010-08-22T14:57:00.004-04:00

The return trip home was like coming down from a mountain top experience with God. The way seemed more familiar, so not quite so long. Still, we wrote in each other's journals our last thoughts, words of appreciation and encouragement, and watched our Team dwindle in numbers as we sent off a few at a time. By the time we reached Dulles airport and had to say goodbye to the New England portion of the Team, tears were flowing freely as we felt the pull of our American lives getting stronger. No one was ready to let go of all that was Namibia to us.

Now we face, once again, those thoughts, feelings and experiences that we have only talked about thus far. How can we communicate effectively what God has done in our lives? How can we hold on to the lessons He has taught us? There will certainly be those indescribable moments for each of us where God showed up. We hold them close to our hearts. We will be praying for that child that found a special place next to our heart, then remember that all of them need prayer and pray for them as well. We will miss one another and ask God to hold them close and help us to keep in touch and faithful to our newest close friends.

I ask you to join us in prayer that we will be faithful to hold on to the lessons God has taught us through our journey; that we will be faithful to watch for God sightings each day, and take time to appreciate God for what He is doing. Above all, that each of the Nam2010 Go Team will keep looking to Jesus to light the next step of the path that He has for us, and to have the courage and faith to take the next step with Him.

Thank you for being a part of our adventure with God in Namibia!

Meegan's Sick Rap

2010-08-20T10:24:00.002-04:00

Several months ago, we journeyed down this way
Following His voice, obeying what He would say
All of entering to a world, truly unseen
With God taking our hands, and learning to lean

So here comes a team, to the land that God forgot
We didn't look back, for those tickets had been bought
We are a team of 13 traveling afar
Never once all meeting, or riding in a car

First there is Fred, and Linda his charming wife
Mike is their son and has been his whole life
The youngest is Brook who hails from NC
While Katie flew the farthest, from Milwaukee

Three hail from NH, Kayleen Anna and Bobbi
Three call Maine home, Josh, Meegan and Lindsay
We have 2 more who flew ahead to meet us
And when we land they will be there to greet us

The New England group flew down from Portland
With the other group flying up from NC
We met up in DC - then to JFK
Then over the shining sea

Before we got aboard
A crisis did abound
Panic hit in the lobby
Anna's passport lost then found

Man, what a big plane
So excited to leave
All in our orange shirts
Flipping out for our own TVs

We landed in Windhoek, all of us safe and sound
But the microchip in Bobbi's passport could not be found
Even though we had been flying for quite a while
We were excited to complete the team here come Jenn & Kyle

We loaded up kombies with everyone's stuff
And we started our 5 hour drive, man would that be tough
Seeing so many new things, with new sights to explore
We had no idea with us, what had God in store

Arandis was just a small light in a wide open space
And instantly returned joy to our face
A good nights sleep is what we all did need
We were ready to start in planting some seeds

Meegan and Anna headed to the preschool
Guys went to throw sand
Jenn was led to Revival
Others made things by hand

For those of you who don't know much
Or some who might know your stuff
Never be around a person
When he says he has to puff

Each bag of sand would help with bricks
And each necklace they would sell
The sewing of each scarf and bag
Each in the story to tell

Some people taught music in the school
Bringing smiles to each kid
Jazz, Classical, Country, Rock,
Hip Hop words like 'thrid'

Each of our days spending afternoon with the kids
And taking walks all around Arandis land
The kids making ways to our hearts
Forever together in the palm of God's hand

Linda and Meegan organized books
While others got lost in the town
Everyone of the kids offering a smile
Truly a joy to be around

We had our fun on the dunes of sand
Clocking speeds of 45 miles per hour
Enjoy Swakop and the ocean too
We'll forever have sand in the shower

We jumped off of the dam
Swimming with fishes like cod
Smacking our faces, feet and backs
Stop groaning and worship God!

Another wood market, another great deal
Off to the safari and great views we would steal
The oryx, giraffes, and a warthog or two
Even had rhinos trying to mate with you

Some saw the lions
While others sat to chill
Watching the final sunset
Fading behind a hill

We drove down to Windhoek
To eat some game before you go
Kudu, Zebra and Ostrich
Bellies full, we left Joe's

What a wonderful blessing this trip has been
We have been so encouraged beyond words
Fifteen days seeking God's plan
Walking closer to our great Lord

We will go our separate ways
Back to the places where we did begin
Thirteen stangers now equal a family
For we are Namibia 2010

Final Days

2010-08-20T09:57:00.000-04:00

Tuesday was our day of goodbyes. We spent some time in the morning with Tresford at the plot where the new church building with be built. He shared with us some of the history of their ministry in Arandis and their visions for the future. We capped our time by praying for God's blessing on the plot, the building, and the vision. The afternoon was spent visiting the various families we've come to love over the past week. There were many last photos together, many hugs, and even some tears. This began the point of transition in our trip, from outward ministry focus to inward reflection. The next few days we would spend considering all the things we had learned and how to communicate those things to our friends and family back home.

Wednesday morning came early as we packed the kombies and waved goodbye to the town that had been our home. We drove 3 hours back to Okahandja where we stayed with Dieter and Joan Morsbach, some full-time Namibian missionaries to Namibia. While we would spend these days in reflection and talking about returning home, we also had the opportunity to do some touristy, once-in-a-lifetime activities. We got to go swimming at a nearby dam, catch the sunset at Monkey Mountain, shop at the woodcarvers markets, and go on a little safari. Our game drive lasted about 2 hours and we saw springbok, giraffe, kudu, oryx, blesbok, rhinos, crocodiles and so much more. After the game drive we wanted to go see the lion feeding, but were told that it was fully booked. We were praying that some spots would open up or some people wouldn't show and sure enough, God proved faithful again. Eight spots opened up for this unique experience to observe some of the most powerful, majestic creatures on the planet.

That evening we dined at one of my favorite restaunts in the entire world, Joe's Beerhouse. We got to eat some of the animals that we had just seen in the afternoon. The Bushman's Sosatie was a popular choice which included ostrich, zebra, kudu, crocodile and chicken. Others tried Zebra steaks, Kudu steaks, or Springbok fillets, all excellent choices. Our final packing began that night as half the team needed to be out to take Kyle and Jenn to the airport at 5:15am. The rest of the team left from Windhoek at 11:30. Now we find ourselves rejoined with Kyle and Jenn for some last precious team time before we board our separate planes for the long flight home. We covet your prayers for safety in travel and these next few weeks of re-entry as many experience reverse culture shock for the first time. Thanks so much for all your encouragement in the comments and continually bringing us before the throne in prayer. We appreciate you more than you know. See you soon!

Two Days Down

2010-08-17T07:16:00.001-04:00

Sunday morning was our second time worshipping with the Arandis Christian Center. Unlike the previous Sunday, we were able to join in with the worship and drama team. Mike and Anna helped Pastor Tresford, Yvonne, Kay Kay, and Julianna lead worship, while several of the remaining member of the team along with Namibian teens presented a drama. It was such a blessing to be able to serve alongside the church family. In order for the Sunday School children to see the drama, they joined us for the morning service. It was so amazing to see all 100 or more of the children file into the morning worship. After church, many of the team stayed behind to hang out and enjoy some fellowship with the youth group. Boniface and Penina were a blessing to see where God is bringing the youth of Arandis. Sunday afternoon, half of the team joined some of the children of Arandis and went for a walk, a three hour hike. The other half of the team went on a much smaller hike finding musical rocks- rocks that when you strike them make bell tones, all the while enjoying another beautiful Nambian sunset.

Monday was our first day of spending time touring the town of Swakopmund. The group joined the Far Out Boarding company and headed to the sand dunes for some sandboarding. The hike up the dune was grueling, but the view from the top was epic. Seeing the dunes and ocean was just a great reminder of how amazing our God is and continues to be. Sandboarding is riding down the dune on a smooth piece of masonite board. You lay flat, elbows out, and you have your feet just above the sand, and then you fly. For us Northerners, it was like sledding in dirt, but way better. Bobbi, with the speed record for the day was clocked at 43 mph- down “Big Mama”. For many hours, we were emptying the sand from our pockets. After the dunes, we went swimming in the Atlantic. It was freezing and took your breath away, but it was a moment we would never forget. The water temperature was very similar to the coastal waters of Maine – still cold. We did some shopping in Swakop, enjoying the wood cravers markets for the first time. We were able to climb yet another dune, and enjoy the sunset over the Atlantic. We had a great time at dinner, and came home for good nights rest – and prepping for our final day in Arandis.

We will be heading out Wednesday to Okahandja to debrief from our ministry here, and we ask for you prayers during this time of fellowship and bonding.

We have plenty of new pictures – make sure you look at them and enjoy Namibia with us.

PS. Happy 11th Birthday Abbott! – Mimi loves you!

(written by Meegan)

Meegan's Journal

2010-08-17T06:28:00.000-04:00

You cannot even imagine the ultimate peace a place can bring you. Traveling to another country – waiting for the confusion and emotional chaos. I mean really. You don’t just arrive and in the very next day feel at peace with your surroundings. I feel like I am waiting for the uncomfortable to settle in, but it is not. From the moment I stepped on Namibian soil – my heart was as rest. Keeping the feelings to myself, because I knew this would probably not last. I am expecting things to come and for the honeymoon to fade. But it is not. I walk around Arandis, not getting lost or misplaced – feeling like I belong. I am in awe of how God is working on the different areas of my life, and seeing where the next step will be. I know I am not standing alone, with any of my thoughts or feelings. Peace. It is here and taking residence in who I am.

Team Video

2010-08-14T18:33:00.000-04:00

TBIF - Too bad it's Friday

2010-08-14T18:19:00.001-04:00

Friday - it is offically one week since we have set the journey of our lives into motion. The days are flying by and we are wishing and hoping they will slow down. The women of the team had the blessed oppurtunity to celebrate woman's day with some of the His Promise mommies. We celebrated being women and how we are such a blessing to God and how He has a specific plan for each one of us. The mommies earlier in the week had made hats to celebrate their creative side. Along with the homemade hats, several of our team brought hats that represented who we were. Some featured sports teams while other woman created hats while here in Namibia. Jenn and Linda both offered words of encouragment to the women and young adults who were there. Prizes were awarded for the most creative hats. After the snacks, we were able to share with the mommies about how blessed each one of the team members had been during the past week in working with each of their families. We spent time in prayer, some in Damara, Afrikaans and English - all just praising and thanking God for the blessing of being women.

While the women were enjoying tea, the men were doing their grunt work - making bricks. After a few epic fails they were able to complete 24 bricks in 2 hours, a start in making the church for the Arandis Christian Center. They estimate that they'll need 10,000 bricks in total. The hard work was very much appreciated by the church and Tresford and his family.

Meegan decided to plan a tastey treat for supper. While making her favorite, Shepherd's PIe, she decided replace the beef with Oryx, an anteloupe relative native to Namibia. After all the dinner was eaten, Meegan and Fred shared the surpirse with the rest of the team. There were no immediate trips to the restroom, so cooking Namibian style: a huge success.

Saturday, we had planned a braai with all of the His Promise kids and families. A Braai is a cookout, BBQ, or other event where the main meal is grilled outside. While the dinner was cooking, the team played soccer, jumprope, and board games with all of the children there. It was a great chance to re-connect with some of the kids, and fellowship with the moms and dads. To commemorate the evening, a group picture with everybody was taken - which was a first of its kind in several years.

Our day ended with a campfire and worshiping the Creator under the vast expanse of the stars. We were encouraged and prompted to make the most of every moment with these families, and to continue these bonds even once we return home.

(written by Meegan)

Anna's Journal

2010-08-14T16:57:00.000-04:00

A day in the life of Preschool at Talikumi Christian School in Arandis: We arrive about 8 and join the few five and six year olds who have arrived first to school and are very eager about the day. Hear the loud chattering of some English, but mostly Afrikaans or Damara. “Henry, stop beating David. Julia get off of little Sammy.” Try to keep the kids off each other and in good health before we start the day. Bend down low to hear the little one whisper in your ear his pleas to escape the small classroom and run to the bathroom. Everyone is here; all fifty children greet teacher Amanda and the others in unison. What time is it? It’s hug time! We hug our friends and our teachers :) my favorite part of the day! Oh, the music is starting, “Get away from the Table and Worship God!” Shouts from the teachers, WORSHIP GOD!

Leave the others and take 10 preschoolers to their classroom. “What day is today?” Friday! Monday! Tuesday! “If today is Tuesday, what day was yesterday?” Saturday! We go over the days of the week, months of the year, the date and struggle through counting all the way to 100. Ok now count by tens: 3, 4, 5… “Teacher, Henry Puffed! I have to open the door!” Try to get them to speak in English because we don’t understand Africans. “He said a bad word!” It’s break time! They run outside to eat and play. So many runny noses, so many passionate laughs, screams of excitement and sometimes horror. The day is half over.

“Be here now,” seems to be a good phrase that describes our week of ministry. It is easy to wish to be somewhere else or doing something more important but it’s most effective when you can be flexible and fill in the gaps of need instead of trying to do what you have planned. His Promise Ministries finds local families to foster children whom they rescue. This week the mommies’ had a “foster training” so we watched the children after school till about 4. I thought it would be nice to stay with one family each day and really build relationships with their children; however they needed me to fill in places for an hour or two hours in one home and move to others. It was easy to complain one afternoon because I thought I would not have the same opportunity as others to build close relationships with one family, but God really brought sensitivity in me for each child that I had the opportunity to stay with. My perspective changed, something that I thought was negative turned into a unique opportunity to get to know each and every child in the ministry.

Many people think that we came here to help and make an impact on these children and although we may very well have, they have influenced us in many ways. They are very independent and they care for each other while their mother is away. We were supposed to walk them home after school although I had to follow their lead because I was constantly getting lost. They didn’t really need us but I was excited to be able to observe and experience the ways that they do things, to be able to talk with them about how extremely valuable they are to God. It’s special that they have been chosen to live in these particular families, and it’s a privilege to be one that has been chosen to come and share life with them. We are here now, I am content and there is really no place else that I would rather be.

Anna

Another Day, Another Opportunity

2010-08-12T05:41:00.000-04:00

Wednesday morning brought more wind and more ministry opportunities. This time Josh joined Anna in the preschool while the others continued helping the Bandas with craft projects to sell. Here Fred is showing off some of the lovely scarfs that they made. They also made some tie-dye t-shirts which they will put Katie's designs on. Speaking of Katie's design, her images are up in the Photo Album for you to check out. The first image is the church logo which goes on the front of the shirt. The other designs will go on the back of the shirts for men, women, and children respectively. I'm sure she'll take orders if you leave them in the comments!

In the afternoon we continued to help in the homes with the children's homework. Their exams this week include things like Mathmatics, Social Studies, English and Afrikaans. When it's time to study things like long division or multiplication, many of us have come to realize how long it's been since we've done that and find that we need to relearn it ourselves! Oh how calculators stunt the mind. Afterward games and walks around town give us great opportunities to build into these kids lives. Conversations can range from surface and ordinary to discussing past hurts, being a positive leader, sexual purity and spirituality. For example, Fred sat down on the couch with Chrizelda and was asked, "Who is God?" These are the exactly the conversations we are here for. Please pray with us for more of these opportunities to speak God into the lives of these children.

In the evening a few of us had the opportunity to join the church Bible Study. The lesson was about Genesis 26 when Isaac was tempted to leave the Promised Land because of a famine, but God reaffirmed His promises to Isaac who decided to obey and stay in the land. Meanwhile others went out for a walk to enjoy the cool evening air and the beautiful view of the southern stars. The team continues to do well fending off the exhaustion of late nights and early mornings, so we covet your prayers for strength.

All the ladies are looking forward to the Women's Day celebration on Friday morning. International Women's Day was a little while back but they weren't able to have a celebration on the actual day. So Sylvia Beukes came up with the great idea to hold a belated celebration while our team is here. For two hours on Friday morning all our women will join the women of Arandis to celebrate womanhood. Linda spent Wednesday afternoon helping some of them make hats for the occasion. She and Jenn will both be keynote speakers along with Sylvia. Please be in prayer for the whole event and particularly Jenn and Linda as they prepare to be vessels for God to share His words with these women.

Shoutouts From The Team

2010-08-11T17:26:00.000-04:00

Kyle says...Hi Mom & Dad!! The trip and team are awesome! We have been busy! Crafts in the morning and babysitting at night. It's so great to be here and God is doing marvelous things here. Love you!

Lindsay says...Hi Mom, Dad, Lincoln, Nick and Sebastian - It is pretty much AWESOME here. We are always busy during the days and the evening time is for the team. I tend to always find myself smiling because I am having such a great time. God is so incredible all around the world. It's so awesome to know we share the same AMAZING GOD while being half way around the world and so far apart. Share my love with everyone.

Brook says... What's up my family. Hope you are having fun in Canada cause I am having a lot of fun here. Mom please don't have a heart attack. During the day we mostly take care of kids but at night we relax so I am going to go now. Bye

Jenn says... Dear family - being back in Arandis is a huge blessing. I've gotten to re-connect with many friends. I have been enjoying my days - 8-4pm with Revival (a deaf and fetal alcohol syndrome). She's just as much a challenge as she is a blessing. :) The week has flown by but God has been faithful to provide strength and patience despite my weakness and inabilities. I hope all is well with you. Give Hudson a big hug for me - I miss you but I'm not ready to come home.

Katie says...Things I learned in Africa: 1) Kids in Africa are incredibly crafty when it comes to toys and games. 2) I can tutor and I like it. 3) I love the Namibian accent. 4) Just because it's Africa doesn't mean they don't have the most current computer software. 5) Thirteen "strangers" can live together and enjoy it. I can't wait for each new day and see what new adventure awaits us! PS - Mom, Dad and Sara, I love you and miss you and can't wait to show you all my pictures! Jadon - Good luck at your shoots this weekend! I love you forever!

Kayleen says...Hey mom and dad, Marcus, Iana and Micah. Namibia is so awesome. I'm having a wonderful time. I have many good new stories to tell, so prepare yourselves. We find ourselves being very busy all the time. God has blessed us with so many opportunities to serve. In the morning we help with making crafts to raise money for Arandis Community Church, the afternoons are taking care of children in His Promise Ministries, and the evenings we spend fellowshipping with one another. Love and miss you: Muzz, Pop, Gram and Gramp - Thanks for following the blog. It's so encouraging to hear from ya'll. Kell - miss you and love you dude. I saw on F-book that you got a Neal pic - how'd you hit that up?!

Bobbi says...so having trouble with the blog - HaHa - I really miss you. I am having a great time and I got to sew this morning. We are making things to sell to raise money to build a church. Then in the afternoon we watch some kids so their foster moms can take classes to learn how to be a better mom. I've been having a great time with my team in the evening. I haven't really tried any crazy food yet except a weird hot dog a few days ago. Please don't worry about me to much. The weather is nice. Its hot and windy. There's sand - everywhere - it being a desert that makes sense - Ok, real important - what does Norman want me to get for him? I can try to get him a cool tribal looking thing - what do you want? Our bed situation is fun - 4 people in the space for 3, someone has the crack. I miss you! Hi Brittney and Ashley - you two rock! Oh ya and Taylor - I replied to your email. Thank you - the kids call me Barbie all the time. It is really cute. Bobbi <3 =)

Anna says...It is a privilege to be here in Arandis. When I arrived I was shocked because it didn't feel very different from anywhere else. However, as much as I was invited into the culture and began talking with people, I fell in love with the vast differences. Despite the challenges of teaching pre-school, the kids and the experience have brought me tremendous joy. I have been constantly reminded to depend on God and I am anxiously awaiting His plans for the remaining days in Namibia.

Meegan says...As a wise man once told me, once you go to Namibia - you will never be the same. I can confidently say - there is nothing closer to the truth. Each day has been filled with blessings from new friends, my team members, and the children of Arandis. Using my talents and loves and finding ways to minster to the people of this town is something I get to do each day. I have been blessed. Mom - you were right - it feels so good to back in Africa - much love to you. Ken & Erica - man - this has been more than I ever imagined. Love you. Abbott - The kids here are reading 39 clues. Maya - we are sewing and making necklaces for the church. Phoebe - the kids here run so fast. Silas - I saw a real camel - :) - Mimi loves you!

To Shapleigh Baptist: We will have new songs and dance moves for you. We have seen some amazing ways that God is working. We have been so blessed each an every day and God is doing some great and mighty things in the our team. Thanks for the commentsand prayers. We look forward - but not too much - to seeing you in a week or so.

Josh says...I appreciate all of the support and comments from all my friends and family. I truly miss home. I didn't even land in Africa, and I was ready to go home. But now it is to the point that the days are going by way to quickly, and the week is just flying by way to fast. Continue to post your thoughts and comments on the recent posts. They are truly encouraging. Haha, the most interesting things that have really happened to me is a kid spitting water on the back of my legs.... I think it was on accident, and I am pretty sure a dog the size of a pigeon tried to hump my leg.... It looked like a rat. Again, I miss all of my friends, and my family. Thank you for your support, and I appreciate all of it.

And you thought Chicago was the Windy City...

2010-08-11T06:11:00.000-04:00

The wind started Monday night. Only the kind of wind that you find in a flat desert. Gusts that almost knock you over as you're walking and kick up sand in your face. It blew loudly all through the night and morning, but fortunately it began to let up in the afternoon. As I mentioned most of our days will look very similar. On Day 2, Meegan and Anna were back in the schools, Jenn was with Revival and the others were helping the Bandas with fundraising projects for their building program. The severe wind put a damper on the brick making, but they continued working on beading, Bobbi sewed

a lovely bag, and Kyle was working on a wire car. In the afternoons we returned to the homes where we spent Monday afternoon. We helped with homework and studying for exams. One had an exam in Damara (their tribal language) on Wednesday so she studied by giving us some Damara lessons. Some of us also went out on walks and had the children show us around town. One of the sights included this old dump truck that they used to use in the nearby uranium mine. It became obsolete because it was too small!

Another project that we were asked to do is to teach music classes at the Talitha Kumi Primary School. They have no one locally who knows about music in order to teach a class, so they are putting some of our musical people to good work. We teach a half-hour class with the 1st & 2nd graders, and then a half-hour class with the 3rd & 4th graders. We've split the week up so one person teaches each day on a different musical genre. On Monday Josh taught about Jazz. The kids loved how he said, "Smooooth jazz." On Tuesday Kyle taught about hip-hop including a rap lesson and learning how to write poetry. He rhymed words like 'heard,' and 'bird,' and 'thrid' (maybe the primary schoolers could help him with his spelling). Later this week Bobbi will teach about Classical, Fred about Country/Western, and I'll teach about good old Rock n Roll.

Evenings continue to be team-time. Dinner was really good - chicken and rice - very American! Anna lead worship music to kickoff our debrief time. We all shared about God moments we saw throughout the day. Then everybody sat around the table and played some games. It was an early to bed night because everyone has been exhausted from such full days of active ministry, but that's what we're here for. It's exciting to see everyone so willing to jump in and help out even when they're tired. Please continue to pray for sound rest, health, and strength!

First Day of Ministry

2010-08-10T05:19:00.000-04:00

If Sunday was our day of rest and worship, Monday was without a doubt our first day of work. Our schedule for the week will be about the same so the run down of Monday will give you a pretty good idea of what we'll be up to. His Promise Ministries Namibia (HPMN) has been looking for an opportunity to hold a training seminar for their foster mommies. The problem has been that all of those mommies have other responsibilities to fill during the week. So one of our major tasks will be helping fill in for the mommies while they are at a week long training seminar with Sylvia Beukes, the HPMN National Director. Anna and Meegan put their teaching skills to work filling in for one of the mommies who teaches at Talitha Kumi Preschool (a ministry of His Promise Ministries Namibia). This week their theme is 'eggs' so they spent the afternoon brainstorming about all the different topics and ways they can teach their preschoolers about eggs! Jenn has taken on a special project for the week, being a one-on-one aid for Revival! Revival is a young HPMN girl who is mostly deaf and has some speech and learning difficulties. That said, she has no lack of energy! Jenn was excited about the opportunity since she remembered Revival from a previous trip. She has already mentioned how much developmental progress Revival has made since they last met.

The training goes until 4:00 each afternoon, but the children arrive home from school between 12:15-1:00. So our team split up amongst the houses in groups of three to help watch the kids for the afternoon. We got them lunch, then started in on homework. Next week is the end of the second trimester of their school year so all the students have exams they are preparing for. Hopefully our study sessions will help them all pass with flying colors. After homework time we had a great time playing games with them, learning some of their games, and simply giving them the love and attention that children here desperately need.

We're also working together with Pastor Tresford & Fabiola Banda from Arandis Christian Center. The church is in the midst of a building project. They have always rented space in the Town Hall for their services which is not always as reliable as it may sound. Furthermore, they are overcrowded with anywhere from 80-150 kids in Sunday School that they hold in the Banda's house. So you can imagine their excitement about the possibilities of having their own building space. Monday morning, Fred, Kyle, and Josh helped Tresford collect some sand and start mixing the cement for making bricks (good manly work!). Lindsay, Bobbi, Brook, and Kayleen were making bead jewelry for the church to sell at an upcoming bazaar to help raise money for the project.

Kayleen and Katie were also brainstorming some t-shirt designs that the church can print and sell at the bazaar. Katie was a little nervous about the design project because she doesn't have her laptop and all the programs and tools she typically uses. But she was overjoyed to discover that Tresford had the latest version of INDesign on his computer, the very program she uses at home! It's amazing how God provides even the little things.

After our first day of ministry the whole team is excited for what the rest of the week will hold. Bobbi mentioned how great it was to be playing with the kids because we're finally doing what we came her to do. From my perspective, it's been incredible to see a team from all over the U.S. come together to form a family. Everyone has a great servant's attitude being willing to jump right in and do anything they're asked. Thanks for your continued prayers and be sure to check out the latest pics in the Photo Album!

Arrival

2010-08-08T10:21:00.001-04:00

We've arrived in Arandis. We've seen God providing and directing all the way here, providing and protecting through delayed flights, a lost passport, and a lost boarding pass. And the God sightings continued! At immigration in Windhoek, Bobbi's electronic passport didn't work, and the agent was not exactly sure what to do about it. The agent next to her walked her through the manual admission process and after the paperwork got re-done in pen, they finally allowed Bobbi to enter the country. That did it, we were all legally into the country!

At baggage claim, we were amazed that ALL (yes, ALL) our bags made it through - none damaged, none lost - I think this is a FIRST for our travels here. But then, we thought we were for sure in trouble when the customs agent asked the fateful question - "Do you have any gifts you are bringing into the country?". Well of course, we had to say "Yes.". That was all she needed to send us from the "Nothing to declare" line over to the "Goods to declare" line. We were planning to open all of our 24 bags to have then examined in painful detail. But, God was there again. When she (the same customs agent) came over to that station, she waved us through, with NO inspection at all!

Jenn and Kyle were waiting, and the whole team was complete. Next, the process of loading the Kombis, and heading off to Arandis. After the 5 hour drive, we settled into our quarters for our first night. Morning came too soon for some, but worship in church was great. We're looking forward to see what God has in store for us next.

Three down, one to go

2010-08-07T05:12:00.002-04:00

We were welcomed to South Africa with a brisk morning temperature of 40 degrees Farenheit. It felt great to finally touch down after 15 long hours from NYC to Joburg. Now we find ourselves with a few hours to peruse the shops at the airport and update the blog. It's nice that our final flight to Windhoek will be the first flight we don't have to run to to catch...but that I must explain.

God continues to give us opportunities to rely on Him completely. Some may call it coincidence, but we know it's Providence. The North Carolina crew met up with the Portland contingent at our gate in Dulles airport. We discovered they didn't have boarding passes with about 10 minutes until we started boarding. But that was minor and was solved rather quickly. After a short, uneventful flight to New York we took the airport train around to our departure terminal. Amidst the transition, we realized Anna had dropped her passport on the train. She couldn't get her board pass or board the plane. This could have been serious trouble. But after a few phone calls we learned it had been found and turned into security at another terminal. With only 20 minutes before boarding we got back on the train to the other terminal to collect her passport. We breezed through security and made it to our gate with only a few minutes to spare. In discussing the situation with her afterward it reminded me how prideful we can be about making little mistakes like that. We want to be perfect and know that we can handle things on our own. But then I got to thinking, if we never make mistakes, then we never learn to rely on God. If we never sin, then we never need Christ. Little lessons from a missing passport.

The rest of the flight was long but uneventful. Most of us got plenty of sleep which will help with jet lag once we arrive. Meegan also wanted me to mention that we had personal entertainment screens on each of our seats so we could play games or watch movies as we desired. All in all the team is in good shape, glad to finally be in Africa, and looking forward to our last short flight to Namibia!

P.S. Meegan says, "Happy Birthday Mom! I love you!"

P.S.S. Katie says, "Mom and Dad, don't worry. We're all safe and sound."

First Answered Prayer

2010-08-05T20:20:00.000-04:00

The convergence has begun. This morning I drove from Charlotte over to Raleigh to join up with Linda. Kayleen and Anna are on their way up to Sanford to join up with the Maine contingent. Fred and Katie are on their way from Chicago and Milwaukee respectively, down to Raleigh...and that's where our travel itinerary ran into it's first hitch. Fred randomly (read "Providentially") checked the status of Katie's flight out of Milwaukee and discovered that it had been delayed. With that delay she would've had only 20 minutes to make her connecting flight in Detroit which was the last flight to Raleigh for the night. If her Milwaukee flight were to be delayed any further then she wouldn't make her connecting flight and we would have some serious problems. The standard procedure would be for the airline to put her up overnight and have her fly out the next morning. But our flight from Raleigh leaves at 6am so she would never make it in time.

Calls went out and prayers went up. Fred was on the phone with the airline discussing options. Katie and Jadon, her fiancée, were at the ticket counter in Milwaukee discussing options. When I finally got the phone call from Jadon, they had managed to put Katie on a bus to Chicago where she would then catch a non-stop flight on a competitors airline and make it to Raleigh only 19 minutes after she was originally scheduled to arrive. This near-miraculous break from airline procedure and finding a plan that would work for her to arrive in Raleigh tonight goes to show that God truly has this trip in His hands and He is indeed sovereign over powers and principalities. He is the God who sees our trials and circumstances and answers our prayers. What a way to start the trip!

Tomorrow morning, Fred, Linda, Katie and myself will fly out bright and early from Raleigh; Anna, Kayleen, Meegan, Bobbi, Lindsay, and Josh will fly out bright and early from Portsmouth; the two halves will meet for the first time at Dulles Airport in Washington D.C. where we'll then head to NYC. Then...finally...after a long, tenuous deliberation...stretching back to November of last year, we will leave American soil for the next two weeks to meet up with the last of our team, Kyle and Jenn, at the Windhoek International Airport in Namibia, Africa!!

A word from Kyle & Jenn

2010-08-04T22:46:00.001-04:00

Hello from Namibia!!! We arrived safely last night (Tuesday). We had great flights. They were long, but we're happy to be here now. :) There is a saying; if you ask God for patience, then He will give you situations in which you can be patient. This was true for us on our flights. We were both anxious to arrive in Namibia, but God gave us peace even when we had to spend an entire day in an airport.

We have enjoyed our first day in Okahandja with Joan and Dieter [pictured below]. It is such a blessing to reconnect with old friends!! They have welcomed us, taken care of us, fed us, and it feels great to finally sleep horizontal. We helped Joan prepare for her upcoming outreach trip to the Northern part of Namibia. We made color activities for the preschoolers where Joan will be working. After lunch, one of Jenn's close friends, Isabella, invited us to join her for a kids program in 5-Rand [a squatter's camp near Okahandja, pictured above]. This being Kyle's first time in an extreme poverty area, he though it was surreal to witness. Surreal meaning, extremely thankful for what we have in America. The shelters are literally made of metal sheets, sticks, and plastic. Garbage was everywhere, goats roam free, and tons of children in ripped up clothes without shoes. Surreal. To actually see it was heartbreaking! He jumped into the program as if the surroundings were normal. The kids were such a joy to his heart. God has been changing his heart about a lot of things such as: patience, this mission ministry, not being concerned with what time it is, and just enjoying every situation. He can't wait for what God has in store for him during the rest of this trip. He already loves it so much.

Jenn is so happy just to be back in Namibia. She did not realize how much time had lapsed since she was last here. She was thrilled about today, because she saw so many friends!! We got to see Bella and Nghidipo today! We met Nghidipo's wife and child, Henri!!!! He is soooooooo freaking CUTE!!!!!!!!! It just warms Jenn's heart to be here. It's also a joy for her to see how Kyle is reacting to Namibia. He is loving the outdoors here!!! He also saw 5-Rand for the first time today! He was shocked. He really loved the kids well while we were with them. We played duck duck goose and he said the words in Oshivombu even when all the kids were laughing at his accent!!! (they laughed at mine right after!!) ;) We sang "There's no other way, there's no other way... only Jesus!!" It was so great to hear the kids sing! She feels so blessed to be staying with Dieter and Joan! They are amazing people and they are just encouraging!

We are super excited to have the rest of our team come over and join us! It's only been one day, but the trip feels too short and we want to stay for longer!!

Much Love,
Kyle and Jenn

We are both amazed by the stars... They are just so beautiful. They take your breath away. We are reminded of the verse: Psalm 19:1, 2, 14 "The heavens declare the GLORY of God; the skies proclaim the work of His hands. Day after day they pour forth speech; night after night they display knowledge. ... May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in Your sight, Oh Lord my rock and my redeemer."

And They're Off

2010-08-01T23:20:00.035-04:00

Right about now two of our team members, Jenn and Kyle, are the first of our team departing for Namibia. They're likely sitting in their seats on the airport tarmac waiting for permission to take off on their long and arduous journey. After stops in Germany, Egypt, and South Africa, they will finally arrive at the Windhoek airport Tuesday evening. I'm sure they would appreciate all your prayers for safety in travel, no equipment issues, smooth transitions during their layovers, ease of communication, and patience with each other. During their extra few days Jenn and Kyle will be visiting with some friends Jenn has made on her previous trips to Namibia. They'll also be picking up our team kombies and meeting us at the airport when the rest of us arrive.

Packing Tips

2010-08-01T22:14:00.001-04:00

If you haven't started thinking about packing yet, then you probably should. Your first order of business should be to check out the packing list which was posted earlier, but just a list doesn't answer all your questions. In general, the best packing tip I could give you is this - if you have to think about it, leave it at home. But with under a week to go here's a list of other packing tips which I hope you'll find helpful as you consider what to throw in the bag and what to leave behind.

Each passenger is only allowed two pieces of checked luggage, no more than 50 pounds each. That is a strict limit, so get out the scale and weigh your bags. But that doesn't mean it has to be 50 pounds. You'll be the one carrying it so do yourself a favor and pack light.
Each passenger is also allowed a carry-on and a personal item. Your carry-on is typically back-pack sized, enough to fit a change of clothes and a few essentials. Your personal item is typically something like a small purse, laptop bag, or guitar.
Lost luggage is a common affair. That is why it’s always safe to bring an extra set of clothes in your carry-on bag. Also, if you’re traveling with someone else, you might consider putting a set of your clothes in each others bag in hopes that at least one of them will make it. If your bag doesn’t arrive with us, it will usually show up within the next few days.
Laundry facilities will be available, so pack less and wash more. Also remember it’s OK to wear clothes more than once without washing them…in fact, get used to it.
If you are having trouble with space, try sealing your clothes in large Ziploc bags. You can suck out the air and save some space, though you might have to deal with more wrinkles when you take them out on the other side.

If you are worried about having space for souvenirs on the ride home, take clothes and other items you plan to leave behind. Even things like sleeping bags and air mattresses can be left for our ministry partners.
If you are bringing items to be donated to our partner ministries it is a good idea to split them up amongst your bags. Imagine what customs officials would think if a grown adult had a suitcase full of baby clothes or hundreds of bottles of pills.
Speaking of pills, make sure all medications are packaged in their original bottle. All prescription medications should be in the bottle with the pharmaceutical label on it.
Notice you should bring two sets of prescription medications. Most pharmacies will only fill one month’s prescription at a time unless you explain your special circumstances. Include one set in your carry-on bag so if your checked bag gets lost you’ll still have your meds.
Make sure you bring a good, warm sleeping bag. Between being in the desert and travelling during their winter months, temperatures do drop quite a bit at night. So if you’re struggling for space, don’t skimp on the sleeping bag.

Soundtrack for Nam2010

2010-07-25T18:55:00.000-04:00

For me, music has always been a big part of short-term missions trips. On the plane ride or during a little quiet time I'll pop in the earbuds and sing along with the jams in my head. Whether it's new worship songs or the latest radio hits some melody is bound to stick out as kind of a theme song for my trip, and years later I'll hear it again and all the memories of that summer will come flooding back. So for the past few months I've been getting my Namibia 2010 Playlist ready, stocking up my Ipod with songs that have been meaningful on past trips or new tunes that I can't get out of my head. I thought I'd share a few recommendations for your list and a little insight into the soundtrack of my summer:

All I Can Say by The David Crowder*Band
Alleluia, Sing by The David Crowder*Band
Shadowfeet by Brooke Fraser
Closer To Love by Mat Kearney
The Call by Regina Spektor

Close Your Eyes by Future of Forestry

Desert Song by Hillsong United (from This Is Our God)
Give Me Jesus by Jeremy Camp
On Our Side by Bethany Dillon
Dirt and Dust by Shelly Moore Band
Without Words by Shelly Moore Band
Waiting On Your Love by Justin McRoberts (from Father Revisited)
Hallelujahs by Chris Rice (from Snapshots:Live and Fan Favorites)
Stars Are Singing by Mainstay
This Is Home by Switchfoot
We're So Far Away by Mae

What's on your Nam2010 playlist?

Conversational Evangelism

2010-07-25T16:35:00.000-04:00

I was recently asked if in Namibia we would have opportunities to bring people to Christ. What seems to be a simple question actually relies on culturally conditioned language that makes it much more complicated than it seems. It was this very question many years ago that challenged my understanding of how I share Christ with people and led me to what I now call conversational evangelism.

The difficulty comes in how Christianity has come to define what it means to “bring or lead people to Christ.” Typically it involves sharing some form of multi-point gospel presentation then leading someone through a pre-fab “sinner’s prayer” and suddenly they’re “saved.” That seems to imply that salvation is contingent upon saying the prayer, which is no longer salvation by grace but by works. And more than that, that’s not how we see people coming to Christ in the Bible. Instead we see people having an experience with Jesus that causes them to put their faith in him. Philip told Nathanael, “We have found him of whom Moses and the prophets wrote…Come and see” (Jn 1:45-46). The Samaritan woman told the rest of her village, “Come, see a man who told me all that I ever did. Can this be the Christ?” (Jn 4:29). In the Gospels, “bringing people to Christ” literally meant introducing people to the person Jesus. Perhaps it shouldn’t be so different for us. Perhaps instead of, “Pray this after me,” our gospel presentation should be, “Come and see” (Ps 66:5). Now let’s place that understanding in the context of evangelism in

Namibia

.

In

Namibia

the "official" statistics will tell you that about 80-90% of the population is Christian, but all that really means is that they go to a Christian church. It doesn't necessarily mean they have a relationship with God through Jesus. If you ask someone if they are a Christian they will likely say 'yes,' but many of those people are trusting in their good works (like going to church or saying a prayer) to save them rather than trusting in Christ. They have a false understanding of what Christianity really is and believe in a works-based salvation that is no ‘good news’ at all (Gal 1:6-7). As a result there are many people who call themselves Christians who still need to hear the true good news about Jesus. (Side note: The situation is not so different in our own country!)

Most of our team’s ministry activities will involve supporting the local church and the orphan ministry. Whether we are interacting with non-Christians or working alongside other Christians, our mission is to bring Christ into whatever situation we find ourselves. We probably won't be doing any big revival meetings and inviting people to come forward and talk to a counselor, but rather most of our opportunities to share Christ will come in the context of conversations. Our evangelism will take place through relationships that YOU build and through conversations that YOU initiate. The everyday conversations and interactions we have with children and other people can help teach them what being a true Christian means and how it looks to live that out in life. That's why we go through exercises like sharing our testimonies, so that in a conversation you can share what Christ has done for you and through your experience you show them what the gospel really is. Your personal story beats a 3-point outline any day.

So the simple answer to our original question is an abundant YES! Everyday, in every interaction, we will have opportunities to bring people to Christ. We won’t necessarily be the ones leading them in a sinner’s prayer, but we will be introducing them to who Jesus is and the saving power he can have in their lives. And when all is said and done we will do well to remember Paul’s words to the church at Corinth: one plants the seed, another waters it, but only God makes it grow (1 Cor 3:6).

Meet the Children

2010-07-22T22:33:00.000-04:00

In Arandis we'll be working together with Children of Promise, the foster care portion of His Promise Ministries in Namibia. Here's a video a friend took back in March of some of the children introducing themselves. I thought this would be a little more personal than me writing another short bio. For those who didn't catch the names, it's Smithley, Ismael, Hailey, Riaan, Janis, Irene, Memory, Mcshall, Queen, Elizabeth, Stephanus, and Sannetjie.

Site Tour

2010-07-18T22:29:00.000-04:00

With the countdown clock ticking away to about two and a half weeks, we would like to welcome those who are joining this program already in progress. Since as early as Thanksgiving of last year a team of 13 missionaries began to form with the common goal of sharing God's love with the people of Namibia, Africa. For the next month many people from around the world will be finding their way to this blog to join in with our adventures. So allow me to give you a welcoming tour:

Link Toolbar - At the top of the page you'll find links that will point you to a little more info about Namibia, the website of our partner ministry His Promise Ministries Namibia, and our team photo album.

Rotating Header - Here you'll find more specific info regarding our team, the ministry we'll be working with, and the town where we'll be staying. You can click on the 'Back' arrow in the bottom right corner if it rotates before you finish reading.

Side Column - In the right hand column you can see some of the photos from our team photo album. We'll be updating the album throughout our trip, so be sure to keep checking in regularly. You can also find past blog posts organized by topic or date.

Main Column - On the main page you'll see a brief introduction to the most recent posts. You can click on the 'Keep Reading...' button to open a page with the whole post. If you've missed quite a few then you may need to click 'Older Posts' at the bottom of the column to catch the earlier posts.

At the end of each post you'll be able to leave comments in the comment box. This will be your primary way of communicating with those you know on the team so feel free to leave a shout out in the comments. But most of all, we wish a very warm welcome to all our new readers and a big thank you for keeping up with us! It's our joy to have you along for the adventure!

Cross Cultural Matters, Part 3

2010-07-07T10:53:00.000-04:00

One evening a few friends were getting together for dinner and a movie and I was invited along. On the menu was a traditional Namibian meal of mahangu. Mahangu is a fine millet ground into flour and used to make a thick loaf of porridge. Guests share from a community loaf and with their hands pull off a hunk of mahangu, roll it into a ball, dip it in a flavoring sauce, and then eat. This is a typical Namibian meal because it is inexpensive and a crop easily grown in the dry environment. While, honestly, mahangu must be an acquired taste, this is definitely an experience you would never have in the States.

Cross-cultural experiences will provide countless opportunities for you to try new things. From eating new foods to befriending new people, the adventures are endless. When faced with these opportunities you can either engage them to the fullest, or shy away into your own little comfort zone. But remember what we’ve learned from the past few discussions: the greater the adjustment needed, the greater the tension, and thus the greater the learning opportunity. Based on that equation, I cannot encourage you enough to take full advantage of every new cultural experience you have the opportunity to pursue!

On one of my first trips to

Namibia

our team developed a catch phrase which still rings in my mind today: Sleep when you get home! Obviously that doesn’t mean spend your entire two week mission trip without a wink of sleep. On the contrary, you need to be rested enough to be alert and involved in all our daily activities. Rather it’s simply a way of saying, ‘Take full advantage of every opportunity afforded you.’ When you return from your trip will you be more satisfied for taking in the beautiful new scenery or for taking a nap on that 3 hour van ride? Will you more regret having that late-night conversation or passing it up to get a little more sleep? The opportunities for relationship and conversation, even with your own team members, could be among the most deep and impactful experiences you have on this trip. This simple phrase just means we’re only here for a few weeks. Don’t miss out on the opportunities right in front of you. You’ll have plenty of time to sleep when you get home.

But after returning from one such trip I came to a startling realization. Even though I was back in

America

, I still wasn’t home. Paul says “our citizenship is in heaven” (Phil 3:19). Peter calls us “aliens and strangers in the world” (1 Pet 2:11). For me, ‘sleep when you get home’ took on a further, eternal meaning because everyday I will be faced with opportunities to share God’s love and the Gospel of Christ with people around me, but will I be too caught up in my own comfort to take advantage of these opportunities?? When I get to heaven will I more regret the conversations I didn’t have and the missed opportunities to serve and love people, or losing a few extra zzz’s or vacation days? Our culture has come to love its sleep and rest. But we’re only here for a short time so by all means, take advantage of every opportunity! Sleep when you get home!

Cross Cultural Matters, Part 2

2010-06-27T14:45:00.000-04:00

In our last discussion on cross-cultural ministry we observed that cultural differences require us to make adjustments in how we interact with and think about situations. We saw that the adjustments we need to make in any given situation are directly proportionate to the amount of differences involved. The more different a situation is, the more adjustments are required. But that's not the only equation that applies to cross-cultural ministry. Additionally, tension is directly proportionate to adjustment. The greater the adjustment required, the greater the resulting tension. And conversely, if little adjustment is required, then only a small amount of tension may result. Consider a rubber band. In its original state there is no tension and no reason to snap. But as you stretch the band out you increase the tension. The further you stretch it, the greater the tension, until finally the tension becomes too great and it snaps.

This is similar to what happens in cross-cultural situations. As we experience differences in culture and make adjustments, our way of thinking (our paradigm) is being stretched. For example, one afternoon a group of short-term missionaries was playing on a soccer pitch with some children. As the sun went down the temperature began to drop. One team member went to the van to grab her sweatshirt and then realized that none of the children had sweatshirts to put on and it was only getting colder. This experience stretched her thinking in regards to wealth and poverty. It’s one thing to hear about it on the news, but to actually experience it forces you to engage the tension.

Now it is important to remember, tension itself is not a bad thing. If it weren't for tension, how could the rubber band hold anything together? Tension is inevitable in cross-cultural situations, and is in fact part of the reason we engage in cross-cultural ministry. The tension is the indication that we are being stretched beyond our current way of thinking. It opens our minds to new ways of understanding the world. If it weren't for tension there would be no learning. However, too much tension can be a bad thing. It is the job of your team leaders to help you process the tension and make sure it doesn’t become so great that you snap.

As you work through these inevitable experiences there are two potential results. The first, as we have mentioned, is that you learn and grow from it. Allow your mind to be stretch and you will come to a fuller understanding and appreciation for this new culture. The other potential result is frustration and misery. The primary factor in determining which result you will experience is the attitude with which you approach the situation. If you approach your cross-cultural experience with an open mind, a humble attitude and a willingness to learn and adapt to the situations around you, then you will likely experience growth and become enriched through the process. However, if you approach these new experiences with a close-minded arrogance, an attitude of superiority and an unwillingness to change, then you will likely endure a frustrating, aggravating trip. Reflecting on our rubber band analogy, it’s the older, more fragile rubber bands that break. The more flexible ones can undergo great tension without snapping. Thus the second steadfast rule in cross-cultural ministry is: Flexibility, flexibility, flexibility!

In our prior lesson we began to address this attitude by recognizing that different is not necessarily wrong. Now we add to this the willingness to adjust to new situations and try new things. The combination of humility and flexibility will go a long way in helping you have the best cross-cultural experience possible.

How to look like a tourist

2010-06-21T09:37:00.000-04:00

In our efforts to prepare you for your cross-cultural experience this summer I thought it would be helpful to pass along this educational training video. Whenever you're in a different culture you automatically stick out like a stubbed toe. However, there are certain things you can avoid that may help ease your acculturation process. If you do not understand or appreciate sarcastic humor, I suggest you go watch 17 hours of Bill Murray movies before watching this short video.

Cross Cultural Matters, Part 1

2010-06-13T16:01:00.000-04:00

In any cross-cultural situation you will find similarities and differences. The similarities are easier to handle because it's what you're already used to. You don't have to make as large an adjustment to fit it into your current paradigm of thinking. When you walk past a KFC in Namibia you'll say to yourself, ‘That looks familiar.’ When you walk in you see the same logo, the same menu, you smell the same fried chicken. It's almost as if you're back in America again. You don't have to make adjustments in how you interact with that situation because it's so familiar. Similarities are easy to handle.

It's the differences that cause so much trouble in cross-cultural situations. The differences between cultures force us to make adjustments on how we think about and interact in various situations. Adjustments are directly proportionate to differences. The more different a situation is, the more adjustment it requires. The more similar a situation is, the less adjustment it requires. This is easily illustrated as you walk out of the airport to your vehicle. As you look around you see a fairly arid environment with mountains in the distance and small shrubbery dotting the landscape. You've seen pictures of deserts before or perhaps been to a desert, so this experience is somewhat familiar and requires little adjustment. You then load your bags into the back of the kombie and make your way to the right side of the vehicle to get in. You are embarrassed to find no passenger door and everyone else climbing in from the other side. In

Namibia

, the driver’s seat is on the right side while passenger sits on the left. This is a minor difference that requires a minor adjustment every time you approach a vehicle to make sure you go to the correct side. In Namibia, they drive on the left side of the road. This is a much greater difference and requires more adjustment from the driver. At every intersection he must consider which lane he will pull into. He must adjust his thinking on who has the right of way and which direction cars are coming from. He must make adjustments for new road signs and markings, and adjust from miles to kilometers. So it's easy to see that the more significant the differences between cultures, the more adjustments are required.

When interacting with two different ways of doing things our natural reaction is to think that our way is right, while the other way is wrong. However there are many problems with this tendency. Is there really only one right way to do it? And if so, how do you know that yours is the right way? How do you know that there isn’t a better way? Or perhaps there are two or more equally good ways of doing it? What are the motivations behind them doing it that way? What are the motivations behind us doing it our way? The reality is by presuming that our way is the only right, or even the best way of doing something we prove our own arrogance and risk alienating those from other cultures. That is perhaps the easiest and fastest way to ruin your cross-cultural experience and your ministry.

That said, the number one rule in cross-cultural situations is this: Different is not necessarily wrong. That phrase should be permanently burned into your memory because it is counterintuitive to how you naturally think and it will make or break your trip. There is not one right way to print money. You’ll see bills and coins of all different sizes, colors, and denominations, and not one of them is wrong; it’s just different. Driving on a certain side of the street, or using a certain system of measurements is not more right or wrong than another; it’s just different (In fact, most of the rest of the world drives on the left and uses the metric system!).

One potent example is to consider how people use their money at the grocery store. In America, someone might buy the large box of cereal or the large jar of spaghetti sauce because even though you spend more at the moment, you’re saving money in the long run because it costs less per ounce. In Namibia, they are far more likely to purchase the smaller, cheaper box or jar because it satisfies what they need at the moment and it’s less expensive. When they run out, they will come back and buy it again. As a result, over time they will actually end up spending more money on the same amount of product as the American. To us that may sound foolish and wasteful, but remember – it’s not wrong, it’s just different. Africans tend to be much more focused on the present than the future. Historically, because of war, disease, famine, etc., Africans had shorter life spans and were never guaranteed tomorrow. Additionally, they may not have the space or storage capacity to keep food over longer periods of time. And paychecks only stretch so far, so they must buy only what they need. Buying in bulk is a luxury we take for granted. Perhaps we as Americans have much to learn from this example of a different culture.

Notice I do say that different is not necessarily wrong. That means, in some cases different is wrong. Typically these situations are in the areas of morality and religion. For example, in Namibia you will see that alcoholism and drunkenness is much more prevalent than in the States. Child abuse and neglect are common place. The state of families and marriage is in shambles. These are issues that must be addressed. But they must not be addressed from another cultural standard of morality (namely ours). We don’t say their morality is wrong because it’s different from our morality. When dealing with moral issues, God is our ultimate standard of right and wrong. We judge their culture (and our own) based on God’s perfect standard. This is, in fact, why we do missions. We are spreading the truth of the gospel to areas of the world where they have it wrong. But I can not emphasize enough, that does not exclude our own culture! No culture is perfect. America has immorality of its own that must be addressed (pride, materialism, greed, gluttony, etc.). So as we approach some of these differences we must do so from the standard of God’s truth and not the standard of Western culture.

To summarize, when you interact with cross-cultural differences you’re going to have to adjust your way of thinking. Sometimes it will take great adjustments, other times, not so great. But your way of thinking needs to be stretched; that’s one reason we go on these trips. If something falls outside your paradigm and you don’t adjust your thinking, the natural tendency is to degrade or insult the difference. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard people say, ‘Well that’s stupid,’ when in reality it’s just different. In areas regarding preference, we must extend grace. But in areas regarding God’s Word, we must extend truth. Sometimes things really are wrong, but sometimes they’re just different. We must learn to distinguish between the two.

T's coming soon

2010-05-16T20:01:00.001-04:00

Well, word has been sprung that team t-shirts are on order so I thought you might want a sneak peek at the design. Katie did a great job putting this together and we're looking forward to having them soon. We'll figure out how to get them to you early so you can wear it around and promo the trip. It makes a great conversation starter and could give you an opportunity to ask, "Would you like to make a donation?!" Also plan to wear it on our first travel day so we'll all recognize each other at the airport. This is one more step toward being ready for departure. Hope you like it!

Packing List

2010-04-25T20:34:00.000-04:00

With almost 100 days to go I know you're all anxious to know what to put in your suitcases. But please tell me no one's starting to pack just yet! This is the list I typically go by and it's done me fine so far. I've divyed it up between what you're wearing, your carry-on bag and your checked bag. When we get a little closer to the trip I'll also post a list of helpful packing tips to remember, probably nothing new, but stuff you won't want to forget. If you have any questions about this list, leave it in the comments. Ok, so here's the rundown of what you should bring...

On your person:
Jeans
T-shirt
Belt
Underwear
Socks
Sneakers
Passport
Wallet

Carry-on Bag:
1 set of prescription meds
Chap-stick
Travel-sized deodorant
Travel-sized toothpaste
Toothbrush
Hair brush
Sunglasses
1 set of clothes (underwear, socks, shorts, & t-shirt)
1 sweatshirt
A book to read
Bible
Journal, pen/pencil
Camera
MP3 player & headphones

Checked Luggage:
1 set of my prescription meds
Ibuprofen, cough & cold meds (only a few doses)
Deodorant
1 bar of soap
Shampoo
Shaving cream & Razor
Other Toiletry needs
Towel
Underwear (6 pairs)
Socks (4 pairs)
Sandals
1 church outfit (guys: khakis & collared shirt; ladies: dress or skirt & nice top)
1 pair of Jeans
2 pairs of Shorts
4 t-shirts
1 sweatshirt
Pajamas
Warm sleeping bag
Pillow
Air Mattress
Air Mattress pump
Sunscreen
Extra batteries/battery charger
Donated items for the ministry

New Team Logo

2010-04-24T20:00:00.003-04:00

It's time for the grand unveiling of our new team logo! Katie, our resident graphic artist, designed this specifically for our trip. We're gonna put the logo on some specialized team t-shirts. Hopefully it can be not only a sign of unity amongst our team but a good conversation starter as well. Feel free to download and use the logo on any promo material for fundraising events or update letters you send out to supporters. Just right click on the image and click "Save image as." And you may want to crop it down to size. Hope you're getting excited!

Meet Chandre

2010-04-18T20:42:00.000-04:00

Chandre was born on May 17, 1997. She and her older sister, Maderyna, were living on a farm with extended family. When Maderyna was only eight years old she was brought to the hospital after it was discovered that her aunt had sold her to a neighbor for sex. She and Chandre came to His Promise at the request of a Social Services aid working at the hospital. Chandre is now a healthy, spunky junior higher involved in the dance team at Arandis Christian Center. Maderyna lives in Rehoboth with her three year old daughter.

Meet Willem & Anna Charles

2010-04-11T20:14:00.000-04:00

This is Willem and Anna Charles. Now at the ages of 70 and 66, both Willem and Anna retired long ago but still feel compelled to do what they can; particularly after one of their own daughters died, leaving two parent-less children behind. They currently serve as His Promise grandparents, helping to raise four of their own grandchildren, Annalie, Daniel, Lee-ann, and Trevor. They also care for one of their own daughters, Lorraine, who is epileptic and unable to care for her daughter (Annalie) on her own. Also included in this family is Geno. Geno lives with the Charles family during the school year and returns to his family in Rehoboth during the holidays. This way he is able to attend Talitha-Kumi Christian Academy in Arandis.

Meet Chriszelda

2010-03-29T10:29:00.000-04:00

Chriszelda was born on July 13, 2000, the youngest of five sisters. The girls' father, their mother, and their mother's current partner all excessively abuse alcohol. The girls have spent most of their lives on their own with the two oldest sisters caring for the three younger ones. When the social worker stepped in the girls had been suffering from malnutrition, lack of care and one of them was being sexually abused. The youngest three were placed with HPMN where they now have a caring foster family. Chriszelda is now in first grade at Talitha Kumi Christian Academy where she can receive the special needs care she requires.

Meet Smithley

2010-03-21T20:36:00.000-04:00

Smithley was born on November 20, 2000. He is the youngest of three children. Both his parents died from AIDS. His extended family, including grandparents, was already taking care of 22 children of his generation. Social Services and Smithley’s family decided it was in the best interest of the five youngest children to be placed with His Promise Ministries. Smithley, along with his cousins Riaan, Ismael, Queen & Memory are currently living in Arandis with HPMN volunteers until a suitable foster family can be found. They are all going to school at Talitha Kumi Christian Academy where they are receiving a quality Christian education.

What will we eat?

2010-03-04T21:13:00.000-05:00

These are mopane (pronounced mo-pa-nee) worms. They're the caterpillar of the emperor moth, otherwise known as tasty hor dourves. After a good rain you can always see people walking with their buckets through the bush collecting these juicy fellas off of mopane trees. They squeeze out the guts, dry them, salt them, and fry them up to eat as treats or maybe use in a stew. They're not too bad actually, kinda leafy flavored.

Whenever people think of going to the African bush they assume they'll have to eat some kind of bugs. While I'm sure we could find some for you, most people are relieved to discover that Namibia has very modern grocery stores with a variety of foods just like you'd find in the States. You might not see the very same brands or flavors, but you'll find plenty that looks familiar. As a team, we'll do all our own shopping and cooking so you should have no fear of going hungry.

That said, we may have the opportunity to eat at some Namibian restaurants where you can eat some indigenous foods. I highly recommend the game steaks like zebra, kudu, or especially gemsbok. They're very flavorful and cooked to order. We also may have the opportunity to visit people in their homes. It's good manners to offer your guests something to drink or eat. It is also good manners as a guest to accept the hospitality of your hosts.

We'll talk a lot more about cultural awareness as we go along, but in general, since we're visiting such a different culture, I highly recommend jumping in head first and taking full advantage of any cultural experience possible. Cultural immersion not only gives you a feel for Namibian life, but it helps you understand a little bit more about the people we'll be ministering to. It also helps tear down some of the walls inevitable to cross-cultural relationships. But the long and the short of it is, if you're not up for eating bugs, no worries. That's one missionary test you won't have to pass on this trip.

Meet Dennis

2010-02-21T21:45:00.000-05:00

Dennis was born out of wedlock in 1998 and is one of four siblings. His mother misuses alcohol and his alleged father has never been present. In November 2001 the mother deserted all four of her children and disappeared. Dennis was placed in an orphanage at that point. In June 2003, through His Promise, he was placed in a new foster family. Today he lives in a thriving, loving environment with foster mom, Likkie, and foster siblings Asser, Anna, and Zeulery. He can be quiet and shy at first but he's very friendly and has a big heart.

His Promise Ministries Video

2010-02-10T12:50:00.001-05:00

Here's an excellent video that will give you an idea of some of the pressing issues in Namibia and what His Promise Ministries is doing about it. You'll get to see some of the places you'll be ministering and meet some of the people you'll get to know. If you're not excited enough already, after you see this you won't want to wait until summer. :)

Shots and meds

2010-01-26T21:33:00.001-05:00

Lots of people hate traveling cause they don't want to get a ton of shots, which brings up the question...What kind of inoculations or vaccinations will you need to go to Namibia? When the doc hears you say you're going to Africa he's gonna want to stick you like pin cushion with every shot known to man. But truth is, that is entirely unnecessary. There are no required vaccinations for traveling to Namibia, but here's the rundown on the recommendations.

Hepatitis A & B - These are both recommended especially since we'll be working with children. They are usually a series of shots over a few months but I think it lasts for life or at least a long time. They're just smart to have going to any third world country.

Malaria - Fortunately this is an oral medication that you take either once a day while we're there or once a week depending on which one you get. On past teams I've been involved with most people have taken these pills. The only common side effect I've heard of is vivid dreams, which could be cool unless you're prone to nightmares! A few considerations though...for most of our trip we will be in the south which is not a high-risk area and in the desert, plus August will be winter in the southern hemisphere so I'd be surprised if you even see a mosquito. If you feel the need, just use bug spray and wear long sleeves at night and you should be fine. So these meds are up to you and may fall into the "better safe than sorry" category.

Diarrhea - Nobody really wants to talk about it, but we'll be practically family by the time we're through so as a team we can be open about this stuff. Reality is this is usually the biggest issue team members have while we're traveling. Between time zone changes and dietary differences there's a lot for your body to get used to. The best thing to do in this case is NOT to take anti-diarrhea meds and plug up your system, but simply drink lots of water and let it flush itself out of your system.

HIV/AIDS - This will only be a concern to the uneducated family member. Unless you're planning to have sex or become a blood-brother/sister with somebody (both of which are restricted according to team policy), you have absolutely nothing to worry about.

Last but not least, we are working on getting travel insurance to cover each of our team members while we're away, so it's not something you need to worry about. This is already included in the cost of the trip. Overall Namibia is a great place to visit where heath is concerned. Just be smart about things like staying hydrated with plenty of water, looking BOTH ways before you step into the street, and not doing anything foolish where you could get injured. As they say, prevention is the best medicine.

Awesome Creation

2010-01-12T15:53:00.004-05:00

As I was out this morning I came across some ducks & a heron wading very close to the bridge I was walking on. This was one of the few areas by the pond not frozen by the abnormally cold weather in the southern US. While the mallards were somewhat wary of people walking by, one watched while the other ate. The heron was standing as still as a statue, ready to fly off at the slightest inkling of danger. It reminded me of our visit to the Etosha Game Preserve. When we came to a certain watering hole, there were springbok on one side and a herd of zebras about a quarter of the way around to the right. It was odd because the herd was not drinking on this hot day, but waiting for the lead zebra to drink to signal the "okay, it's safe" to the rest. The lead animal, only a few feet from the water, stood still for a few minutes, then hesitantly inched forward. It was as if God was whispering in his ear that there was danger nearby. Sure enough, another quarter way around the water a lioness was hiding behind a rock & a bit of scrub brush. Just when we thought he would reach down for a drink, he suddenly backed off, and the rest of the herd with him. I find it fasinating how God has put in just the right survival instincts to each creature He created. As I rounded the end of the pond this morning, there were several wild birds standing on the ice that rarely covers the pond. They called gently to one another, and I wondered if they were praying for the sun to break through the clouds & melt the ice. How awesome is He, revealed by His creation!

To Walk or Not to Walk

2010-01-05T19:17:00.003-05:00

While I was out walking this morning, I was reminded of how integrated walking is into Nambian culture. As in many cultures outside the U.S., walking is the prevalent mode of transportation. While driving may be quicker, gas is expensive and cars need upkeep. Your feet are always available and rarely break down. Walking has the added benefit of chatting with folks along the way. You never know when you might encounter a neighbor or friend and have an opportunity to catch up on all their news. Your feet are also more adaptable and never unsettled by the occasional tree in the middle of the road. Cars, however, are preferred when you encounter the odd wart hog or herd of cattle finding their way across the desert. The downside for Americans; we've gotten too comfortable in our cars and forgotten the art of walking.

Meet Revival

2009-12-28T18:21:00.001-05:00

Revival was born on September 10, 2000. She was born deaf and with what seems like Fetal Alcohol Syndrome symptoms. At that time, her mother was living a very promiscuous and dangerous life style. The father disappeared before Revival was born. Her mother came to HPM to ask for help with her daughter who was living in isolation with her grandmother on the farm. Over the last few years, her mother has begun to turn her life around by no longer drinking. She is a domestic servant and is now taking part-time classes toward her goal of becoming a kindergarten teacher. HPM is hopful that she can one day become part of the HPM family and raise her own daughter. Revival currently attends Talitha-Kumi Christian Academy where she has made great strides in her development in light of her partial deafness and speech issues. She is a joyful young girl who loves meeting visitors, playing games and having her picture taken.

What will we be doing?

2009-12-28T17:56:00.001-05:00

This is one of those simple questions that comes with any missions trip, however the answer may not be as simple as the question. Typical short term missions trips bring their own agenda which they aim to accomplish during their stay so they can return and show their supporters how much return was gained from their investment. This task-oriented mission does not always take into account the unique gifts and skills God has given team members nor the goals and vision of the long-term ministries we will be involved with. That said, our goals will be relationship-oriented with the purpose of encouraging and supporting the long-term missionaries who are already well established and will continue ministering after we leave.

Each team members specific day-to-day tasks may look very different depending on what gifts and skills you bring to the table. For example, those with teaching experience may be involved in the classroom as teaching assistants or help with tutoring after school. Those who have skills in dance, music, soccer, or drama may be involved with after-school programs or workshops. Others may participate in Bible studies, community outreach programs, youth group activities, and more. But most importantly, all of us will have the opportunity to share God's love in a practical way with the poor, the fatherless, and the widowed. We will be able to encourage and support those long-term missionaries who have faithfully dedicated their lives to serving God's people in Namibia. And through us giving of ourselves, you will be encouraged and grow in more ways than you realize.

Meet Anna

2009-12-22T20:06:00.002-05:00

Prior to coming to His Promise, Anna and her brother Asser were in and out of the hospital a number of times due to malnutrition. The Sisters at the hospital had come to know them and finally brought them to the attention of the social worker. Their mother suffers from extreme poverty, alcohol abuse, and promiscuity. She gave no attention to her children who have now found a home through HPM. Anna is now 8 years old and a bundle of energy. She loves to run and play and show off her cartwheels. Together with her 12 year old brother they live with their new foster mommy, Likkie, and two other foster siblings. They both go to the Talitha-Kumi Christian Academy in Arandis. These two children have been given a chance at life through their association with His Promise Ministries.

Meet Queen & Memory

2009-12-22T17:38:00.001-05:00

Queen and Memory are two sisters under the care of His Promise Ministries in Arandis, Namibia. Queen is older at 10 years old, and Memory is 9. Their mother is ill and has a severe drinking problem. Both girls were part of an extended family that was unable to care for the more than 22 children they were responsible for. After being placed with His Promise Ministries, Queen and Memory, along with their cousin Riaan, now live with a foster mother, Alma. They both attend Talitha-Kumi Christian Academy, the ministry's private school, where they will receive a quality education. Queen is not shy to say what's on her mind, while Memory has a sweet temperament and a wonderful, bright smile. With the help of foreign sponsors and His Promise Ministries, these two girls now have plenty to smile about.